You may have noticed some shiny new locales in my screenshots as of late. That's because I'm in a new guild horde-side. They're 10/12, and I get to raid 3 nights per week. A nice upgrade in the raiding department over my prior situation.
That said, like any guild change, it's an adjustment. I've gone from being an officer in a guild that I was in for almost two years, to being the new kid in the progression raid team in a Cataclysm-birthed guild. Easing the transition is the fact that the guild leader is my SO's buddy from way back. So that helps. But it still takes time to get to know everyone and get a sense for the flavor of the guild. And it's easy for a new team member to feel left out of all the inside jokes that you just had to be there to understand. And if you are a highly competitive player, used to being recognized for doing a kick-ass job, it sucks to go back to unknown status.
All this got me thinking about how you as a new guild member can best get assimilated to a new guild.
3 Ways a New Guild Member Can Get to Know the Guild
- Tag Along
When a guildie asks in G for someone to come along for a heroic, raise your hand. Even if you don't need anything else from justice points. It's in the 5-mans you actually have time to chit chat and get to know your fellow guildies.
- Lurk on Vent
Even if you're not the type to chit chat yourself, if you find that a number of your guildies stay logged in to Vent for hours, that may be a great way to get to know them a little better. And they don't have to know that you're surfing the Internet or reading blogs while you do it. ANd in fact, that may even give you some conversation fodder.
- Connect via Social Media
No, I'm not talking about SPAMming folks with your get rich quick schemes. I'm talking about joining your guildies' conversations on twitter, in the guild forums, on blogs, or even on Facebook. Pick the venues you are most comfortable with, and go raed through the past month or so of activity. Then add guildies to your connections, and say hi. I've been amazed at how much you can learn about your guildies just from being active on twitter.
So, what are your tips for getting to know a new guild?